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Find hope and clarity after betrayal, addiction, or infidelity.

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Helping those who are navigating the heartbreak of fractured relationships due to addiction, infidelity, and betrayal trauma is more than important to me—it’s what I’m called to do.

Relational, emotional, and sexual betrayal happens far more often than most people realize. Discovering that someone you love has hidden the truth can feel devastating and overwhelming. At Momentum Healing & Recovery, I understand the depth of that pain and the courage it takes to seek help.

I believe in your ability to heal and grow-and that you may just need some support and guidance to do so. This is your opportunity to prioritize you and your healing. This can be the first steps towards recovery and empowerment-despite life circumstances/others behaviors-you can heal!

How ?

My focus is on supporting both betrayed partners and individuals struggling with addiction or compulsive behaviors. For betrayed partners, I provide a trauma-informed, compassionate space to process your experience, heal from betrayal, and create a clear, personalized plan for moving forward.



For those facing addiction or compulsive patterns, I offer structured, evidence-based guidance to help you understand and interrupt harmful behaviors, develop healthy coping strategies, and build a plan for long-term stability. When appropriate, I may recommend a higher level of care to ensure you get the support you need.


In all cases, my goal is to provide a safe, nonjudgmental space where healing is possible and you can move forward with clarity, confidence, and hope.

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Supporting individuals and couples affected by addiction—including sex/porn addiction and infidelity—and the resulting betrayal trauma is not just my work, it’s my passion.

Many who have heard my podcasts or webinars already have a sense of my approach and style, which helps create a familiar, comfortable space. Drawing from my own experience in recovery and healing from betrayal trauma, my goal is to show that healing and joy are possible for anyone willing to do the work. I provide personalized resources and guide both betrayed and betraying partners through a coaching process tailored to their unique situation.


Common breakthroughs include partners realizing the betrayal is not their fault and that support and healing are available regardless of what the addicted partner does, while those struggling with addiction receive judgment-free guidance, education, and strategies to move forward.



Recovery is challenging but deeply rewarding. My experience allows me to provide practical resources and help clients identify the tools and support most applicable to their journey, empowering them to heal and rebuild their lives.

I value recovery. I hold the space in a judgment-free zone. I want to give each person the hope that they can find healing and the support to do so.

Betrayed Partners:

  • Do you question if you’ll ever be okay again?
  • Do you struggle with shame—how this could have happened?
  • Are you confused about addiction vs. “cheating”?
  • Wondering if porn can be an addiction?
  • Difficulty holding healthy boundaries?

Betraying Partners:

  • Do you think you’ll “never do this again”?
  • Acting out even when you know it hurts others?
  • Can’t stop?
  • Using substances or behaviors to escape/numb out?
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Support for Every Side of the Story

Whether you’re the betrayed partner or the one struggling with addiction, we provide guidance and tools for healing.

Betrayed Partners:

  • Do you question if you’ll ever be okay again?
  • Do you struggle with shame—how this could have happened?
  • Are you confused about addiction vs. “cheating”?
  • Wondering if porn can be an addiction?
  • Difficulty holding healthy boundaries?

Betraying Partners:

  • Do you think you’ll “never do this again”?
  • Acting out even when you know it hurts others?
  • Can’t stop?
  • Using substances or behaviors to escape/numb out?

Your Path from Struggle to Strength to Healing & Recovery… Together, We’ll Get There!

Trauma Requires Compassionate Guidance

When betrayal or addiction affects a relationship, the emotions can feel overwhelming—shame, confusion, and isolation are common. I provide a safe, judgment-free space to process your pain, understand what happened, and begin building a foundation for healing.

 Empowerment Comes Through Education and Tools

After the initial shock, empowerment becomes key. I help you understand addiction, betrayal trauma, and recovery, providing practical tools and strategies to set boundaries, rebuild trust in yourself, and take control of your healing journey. Empowerment is moving from “Why me?” to “I have choices.”

Growth Creates a New Future

Healing isn’t just about surviving—it’s about thriving. Through coaching, you’ll build resilience, regain confidence, and create a future filled with joy and connection. Whether you stay in your relationship or move forward on your own, I’m here to guide you toward a brighter, healthier chapter.

Trauma Requires Compassionate Guidance

When betrayal or addiction enters a relationship, the emotional impact can feel overwhelming—shame, confusion, and isolation often take center stage. Without proper support, these feelings can lead to unhealthy coping mechanisms or prolonged suffering. My role is to provide a safe, judgment-free space where you can process your pain, understand what happened, and begin to stabilize. This foundation is essential because healing starts with feeling seen, heard, and validated.

 Empowerment Comes Through Education and Tools

Once the initial shock begins to settle, empowerment becomes the next critical step. Many people feel powerless in the face of addiction or betrayal, but knowledge changes everything. I guide you through understanding addiction, betrayal trauma, and recovery principles so you can make informed decisions. With personalized strategies and practical tools, you’ll learn how to set healthy boundaries, rebuild trust in yourself, and take control of your healing journey. Empowerment means moving from “Why me?” to “I have choices.

Growth Creates a New Future

Healing is not just about surviving—it’s about thriving. Growth happens when you transform pain into purpose and create a life that reflects your values and goals. Through coaching, you’ll discover resilience, rebuild confidence, and develop a vision for your future that includes joy and connection. Whether you remain in your relationship or move forward independently, growth ensures that this chapter becomes a stepping stone, not a permanent wound. My commitment is to walk with you until you see that new horizon.

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The Long and Winding Road

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Excuses and Denials: I’m Stuck. Oh My!

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"First, I just want to say how much I appreciate the help I have already received from listening to your podcast!"

— Anonymous

"And will take this opportunity to let you know I love the stuff u say. On the podcasts and groups. U really get it. And ur awesome. So thank you. "

— Anonymous

"I wanted to say thank you for the time you took to respond to me and the obvious deep care you have for the work. You are incredible. From my heart - thank you. "

— Anonymous

"You offer an amazing support and resource"

— Anonymous

"Your kind manner and support helped ease my anxiety about this process."

— Anonymous